Actions Speak Louder Than Words

For just as the body without the spirit is dead; so faith without works is also dead. —James 2:26

There should be less talk; a preaching point is not a meeting point. What do you do then? Take a broom and clean someone’s house. That says enough. —Mother Teresa

Mother Teresa, the diminutive spiritual giant who worked daily in the streets of Calcutta, seeing Jesus Christ in all of his distressing disguises, as she put it, offers us some profound wisdom. Words that are not backed by action as James says become simply a preaching point. If we want to make a point, we may need to create a meeting point with new and effective behavior.

The old aphorism, I hear, I forget; I see, I remember; I do, I understand, applies not only when we want to learn, but also to how we wish to be treated (Matthew 7:12). The most effective way to teach anyone what we would like them to know is through behavior, not words. The music teacher cannot teach us to sing by telling us how it is done—they must help us use our voice which gives birth to the notes. Eventually the student in driver’s education has to get out of the classroom and behind the wheel.

Our children will more often than not do as we do rather than as we say, which causes many of us a lot of frustration when they emulate those traits we do not like in ourselves. Someone said this experience is best expressed by the phrase, What you do speaks so loud, I can’t hear what you say. This point was vividly made one evening when watching a person being interviewed utter some of the most belittling, near hateful words toward those with whom she disagreed while wearing a cross around her neck.

We can preach the unconditional love of God for humankind, but if we are hateful or resentful toward those who see faith and life different than we do, then our words belie our actions. The scripture puts it this way:

Those who say ‘I love God’ and hate their brothers or sisters, are liars; for
those who do not love a brother or sister whom they have seen, cannot love
God whom they have not seen. —1 John 4:20

Prayer
Almighty God you will come to me this day in some pretty distressing disguises. Help me to meet you, disguised as you may be, in such a way that I will be to them a word of grace and hope. In the name of Jesus the Christ. Amen.


Mac Hamon, Senior Pastor
Castleton United Methodist Church
Indianapolis, Indiana